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Spill: Secrets from a Former Agency Executive & Spokesblogger Book Review

By Know-it-All Nikki 5 Comments

Since the start of her online presence Jessica Smith set herself apart from bloggers as a thought leader and influencer. With an eye for utilizing best practices in business and a keen understanding of the blogger community, Smith was able to align herself with well known brands, PR firms and even start ups. Her knowledge and expertise transcends well into her first book: Spill: Secrets from a Former Agency Executive and Spokesblogger.

I met Jessica Smith about five years ago “virtually” through some head hunting she was doing for a start up parenting niche website. They were looking for a “mom voice” to lead their community and my experience as an online community manager and community volunteer lead me to a phone interview with Jessica, where after I eventually got the job.

From that first conversation I knew that Smith knew her stuff. Her advice on never selling yourself short and remaining true to yourself in order to find success has been the best advice I’ve ever gotten so when I learned she was writing a book, I was hoping to see more of that sage wisdom in print.

Spill: Secrets from a Former Agency Executive & Spokesblogger Book ReviewSmith’s book is a mix of How-to and Been There, Done That Bought the Coffee Mug. It reads like a conversation you’d have in person with Smith herself giving solid advice in an easy to understand manner. If you’re a blogger trying to figure out how to become a brand ambassador, find more paid gigs as a blogger or even just trying to leverage your blog as a business, this is a must have book.

Smith packs a lot of information into the 81 page book. I recommend that you save your Starbucks money for a week or two and buy.the.book. If you think you can read it once and then go on your merry way; think again. Spill contains enough information for three books and you’ll want to pick it up, read, take action, rinse and repeat for nearly every chapter. Smith offers advice and solid actionable tasks from working up your blog’s “About” page to re-vamping your LinkedIn profile for better, more relevant connections.

Spill offers advice and information that even seasoned bloggers like myself can take and put to use. I will be the first to tell you that there’s always something new to learn about blogging, especially as the industry continues to grow and change. What was comforting to read was that even as I’ve been at this for seven years now, the wisdom Spill delivers reaches far beyond whatever changes the industry may encounter. While some information might be considered common sense (see the chapters on Community and Credibility); the way Smith lays the information out for you puts a set of fresh eyes on how to best present yourself to brands, your readers and even your colleagues.

Overall, I’d recommend this book to both new bloggers and experienced ones; especially those who often wonder, “Why don’t I get picked for campaigns?” We’ve all been there and asked that question at one point or another and Smith explains both what to do and what not to do in a non-threatening and engaging manner.

I’ve always stated that I didn’t start blogging to make money (it’s actually the other way around; I was writing and making money and then decided to blog. How very 2006 of me, I know). However, experiences and opportunities have led me to a path to be able to add additional cash to my family’s budget from blogging (in addition to maintaining a successful freelance business and Telecommuting job). Were I to start from scratch, right now, I’d implement a number of Spill’s secrets to get off on the right foot.

*Disclosure: I was not given a review copy of this book nor was I asked to blog about this book. (Pretty sure Jessica has no idea I even read the book either).  I did however borrow it from Kindle’s lending library and it has thus been added to my “Wish List” (which is about seven country miles long). Also? Despite the same last name, Jessica Smith and I are not related, we were just lucky enough to marry awesome men with that last name – who are also not related. (However there should totally be a “Smiths of the World Unite” club somewhere).

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  1. Amanda @ High Impact Mom

    March 11, 2013 at 9:47 am

    I read it too and found that it would be a great edition for all new bloggers and those looking to make the transition!

    Reply
  2. Nichole Smith

    March 11, 2013 at 10:38 am

    I agree! Jessica never comes out and says, “if you’re an experienced blogger you can’t do X”. This is why I thought it was great for even those who have been blogging for a bit and looking to make that transition to professional blogging.

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  3. Nichole Smith

    March 11, 2013 at 11:01 am

    Thanks Jessica! Well I remember our very first conversation so I knew there would come a day when you’d have to take that great advice to a much larger platform! I’m so glad you wrote this because so many wonder – what can I do? Why don’t I have the gigs and you put it out there in a way that’s friendly and easy to put to use.

    I’m slowly plowing my way through my Wish list (it’s so long it’s scary) so Spill is one of the books that I will be adding to my library (hopefully soon!)

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  4. Sue

    March 11, 2013 at 11:49 am

    I couldn’t agree more! I’m very new to blogging and Spill has been an amazing resource.

    Reply
  5. Jessica Smith

    March 11, 2013 at 10:46 am

    Wow. Nichole! What a way to start the week. I had NO IDEA you had bought the book and never expected a review. Thank you so very much! Coming from you, someone who has been doing paid work building communities online for SO long, your review means a lot. For someone with a lot to spill, I’m speechless. I’m glad you downloaded from the lending library…that’s exactly why I offer it exclusively through Amazon – so that it can be a part of that program. Thank you again, this means the world to me. Who’s humbled & has goosebumps right now? This girl!

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Well poop, I missed day 4 (Early Answers, Lasting Well poop, I missed day 4 (Early Answers, Lasting Impact) and day 5 (How We Monitorthe Heart)! But it's fine! Because they both fit nicely for today's adventures which consisted of a carotid artery ultrasound (day 5) and a series of messages between myself and @nationwidekids to discuss how best to approach the weight loss struggle (day 4). 🤨😠

But it also ties in beautifully with day 6 of #heartmonth, #choosingjoy because despite all of the crap that goes along with being an adult with CHD, I am genuinely joyful. Some of comes out in sarcasm but I've told people if I'm not cracking jokes or inserting some token sarcasm into the day, then something is truly wrong. The last 2 years have been hard, but believe me when I say, I AM HAPPY and I'm wearing red today!
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I almost missed it, day 3 prompt for #heartmonth i I almost missed it, day 3 prompt for #heartmonth is #lifebetweenappointments 

Yeesh, where do I start? Right now my life between appointments is a little chaotic. The number of appointments has increased a thousand fold than what I was used to growing up.  There are more appointments now than I had when I was pregnant with all four kids!

I struggle to keep them straight or where they're going to be. I write them down in a paper planner, my wall calendar, and my phone's calendar. And I still wind up looking them up multiple times because I don't trust my brain's ability to recall.

I'm expected to write down detailed symptoms. I don't recognize symptoms as symptoms. It just feels like a Tuesday to me. But do try to have a normal life, the docs encourage: eat right, be active, get sleep. How do I do that and not wonder if what I'm feeling while I'm trying to be normal is a symptom?
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And then other times, like on this Monday, motivation arrives and it feels easy, like a special occasion you'vebeen waiting for. So you wear the anatomical heart earrings your daughter bought you and you don the gifted knit heart cowl your knitty BFF made for you and for a day you feel normal.
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#congenitalheartdefectsurvivor #congestiveheartfailure #dtga
Today kicks off the first day of #heartmonth. I st Today kicks off the first day of #heartmonth. I still think it's silly to only give one day, one month, or even one week to talk about heart disease. Alas, here we are. 

I'm going to do my best to follow the 28 daily prompts for #heartdisease and #chdawareness but I make no promises.

Today's prompt is #BeyondtheDiagnosis. To me, looking beyond being born with a CHD means a few things:

It's the invisible things that can't be measured on a chart, like the fatigue, sadness for the health I wasn't born with, and the mental math of asking myself if I have enough energy for all I want to get accomplished in a week, or even a day.

It's being seen as a whole person; not the condition the doctors are treating. This a part of me, not all of me. I'm still a parent, friend, writer, a hopeless romantic. Yes, I'm a heart patient, I ALWAYS will be, but I'm also opinionated, stubborn, funny, and a person with real feelings. 

But most of all it's refusing to be reduced to number in the healthcare system, or someone else's discomfort.
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#chdawareness
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#charliesworld #catstagram #instacats #catsofig #housecatlife
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#charliesworld #instacats #catsofinstagram #catsofig #housecatlife catstagram
The world is falling apart. The world is falling apart.
Head to the blog (link in bio) and read the latest Head to the blog (link in bio) and read the latest. I've been trying to figure out how to write this for 2 months now and I still don't know if I got it right.
.
.
.
#knowitallnikkimovestoohio #dtga #heartmonth #ACHD #adultchdsurvivor
Well poop, I missed day 4 (Early Answers, Lasting Well poop, I missed day 4 (Early Answers, Lasting Impact) and day 5 (How We Monitorthe Heart)! But it's fine! Because they both fit nicely for today's adventures which consisted of a carotid artery ultrasound (day 5) and a series of messages between myself and @nationwidekids to discuss how best to approach the weight loss struggle (day 4). 🤨😠

But it also ties in beautifully with day 6 of #heartmonth, #choosingjoy because despite all of the crap that goes along with being an adult with CHD, I am genuinely joyful. Some of comes out in sarcasm but I've told people if I'm not cracking jokes or inserting some token sarcasm into the day, then something is truly wrong. The last 2 years have been hard, but believe me when I say, I AM HAPPY and I'm wearing red today!
.
.
.
.
#ACHD #congenitalheartdefectsurvivor #WearRedforHeartMonth
I almost missed it, day 3 prompt for #heartmonth i I almost missed it, day 3 prompt for #heartmonth is #lifebetweenappointments 

Yeesh, where do I start? Right now my life between appointments is a little chaotic. The number of appointments has increased a thousand fold than what I was used to growing up.  There are more appointments now than I had when I was pregnant with all four kids!

I struggle to keep them straight or where they're going to be. I write them down in a paper planner, my wall calendar, and my phone's calendar. And I still wind up looking them up multiple times because I don't trust my brain's ability to recall.

I'm expected to write down detailed symptoms. I don't recognize symptoms as symptoms. It just feels like a Tuesday to me. But do try to have a normal life, the docs encourage: eat right, be active, get sleep. How do I do that and not wonder if what I'm feeling while I'm trying to be normal is a symptom?
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.
#heartfailure #congestiveheartfailure #congenitalheartdefect
Waiting. . . . #catsofinstagram #charliesworld #in Waiting.
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.
#catsofinstagram #charliesworld #instacats #catsofig #catstagram
Day 2 of #heartmonth is #motivationmonday. All I c Day 2 of #heartmonth is #motivationmonday. All I can say, is sometimes motivation feels like the end of a very long tunnel; a pinprick of light in an otherwise black abyss. Motivation eludes me more than I care to admit. When it feels unattainable I feel like the little girl I used to be, opening my eyes in a pitch black room, are my eyes actually open? Making my way across the room, arms outstretched, hoping I don't run into anything, or worse, fall. 
And then other times, like on this Monday, motivation arrives and it feels easy, like a special occasion you'vebeen waiting for. So you wear the anatomical heart earrings your daughter bought you and you don the gifted knit heart cowl your knitty BFF made for you and for a day you feel normal.
.
.
.
.
#congenitalheartdefectsurvivor #congestiveheartfailure #dtga
Today kicks off the first day of #heartmonth. I st Today kicks off the first day of #heartmonth. I still think it's silly to only give one day, one month, or even one week to talk about heart disease. Alas, here we are. 

I'm going to do my best to follow the 28 daily prompts for #heartdisease and #chdawareness but I make no promises.

Today's prompt is #BeyondtheDiagnosis. To me, looking beyond being born with a CHD means a few things:

It's the invisible things that can't be measured on a chart, like the fatigue, sadness for the health I wasn't born with, and the mental math of asking myself if I have enough energy for all I want to get accomplished in a week, or even a day.

It's being seen as a whole person; not the condition the doctors are treating. This a part of me, not all of me. I'm still a parent, friend, writer, a hopeless romantic. Yes, I'm a heart patient, I ALWAYS will be, but I'm also opinionated, stubborn, funny, and a person with real feelings. 

But most of all it's refusing to be reduced to number in the healthcare system, or someone else's discomfort.
.
.
.
#chdawareness
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